If you are uncertain about your relationship right now…

1. Rule of thumb: Only get into a relationship when it makes you happy. If you start to feel sad, irritated, disturbed, paranoid or painful, which often outweigh your happiness, you may as well stop.

2. Bottom line, you need to love yourself and protect yourself. So do not lose yourself no matter how much you may be in love. And if the person needs you to lose yourself to be in the relationship, he is probably not the right one anyway.

3. A good relationship cannot be established just by your own effort. It demands devotion, effort, compromise from both sides. If you are the only one making all the effort and compromises from the beginning, you will be the only one doing those for the rest of the relationship.