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I am a secret fan of Narcissistic People

You can easily identify a narcissistic person by the following 2 qualities:

  1. When a narcissistic person tells you how good he is, like he’s a number 9 out of 10, he really believes he’s a number 9; he will never secretly feel he’s only a number 7 but will behave as if he’s a number 9. He truly firmly profoundly fundamentally believes that he’s a number 9.
  2. When you give compliment to a narcissistic person, no matter how exaggerating and ridiculous your compliments are, he will always happily accept it – he would probably not use language like “I’m flattered”; instead he is likely to respond something like, “I totally agree with you”, or “I think you’re totally right about me”.

Given the above 2 qualities, I figured I am obviously not a narcissistic person. The first rule may apply to me quite consistently, but never the second rule.

Given the above 2 qualities, I also figured narcissistic people are very cute. I think they make me happy, they make me want to laugh, they can’t tell if I am laughing at them, and they make me wonder how wonderfully amazing the world is!


I would rather spend time with an optimistic person of course, but truly optimistic people are very hard to find in this world to be honest; so I would happily spend time with a narcissistic person without any complaints, and I think both of us will be very well entertained.


If you are still hanging out with pessimistic people, act fast! You should try to find some narcissistic ones!

  1. Dian Qu
    February 25, 2011 at 10:03 am

    Hi Danye, this is an awesome blog! Someone in China forwarded your sina blog address asking if I knew you since we were both at Yucai, and a link there took me here. I haven’t read much yet, but the first post on the front page is great, very well-thought and well-written. Hope all is well in NY! Dian x

    • February 25, 2011 at 11:53 am

      you’re so lovely Dian! and it’s great hearing from you 🙂 I am glad you checked this out and thank you for your compliment. I might be visiting London soon we should definitely catch up! I’ll keep you posted:)

  2. March 9, 2011 at 4:25 am

    Cool blog and keep it up.

    • March 11, 2011 at 6:29 pm

      Your blog is really cool too! I’ll leave comments when I get a chance too, cheers!

  3. March 19, 2011 at 1:26 pm

    This is a lovely, lighthearted look at mild narcissism, and I agree we can all have fun with it. But narcissists can be DEADLY people, destroying nearly every relationship. They will make you crazy. I like being a little bit of a narcissist, but I don’t want the whole tomato!

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